When Fear Holds Us Back...

Yesterday, I took my daughter driving in the rain for the first time. As we arrived at her orthodontist appointment, I asked her how she thought it went. Her response, "Well I didn't crash..." This really made me think. Was the drive perfect- no, but was it important that she learn how to drive in the rain- yes! Why had it taken me so long to "allow her" to drive in the rain? Looking back, I know it had nothing to do with her driving skills- but it had everything to do with my fear. "What if she struggled driving in the rain?" I am not exactly sure in my mind what I thought might happen, but it prevented me from giving my daughter a skill that she needed to become a proficient driver for too long. I knew that I had provided her the skills to transfer her knowledge to this new type of driving, but I held back.

How many of you resonated with this "fear?" Maybe it has happened in your personal life? Maybe it is based on learning or trying something new with your students? But I am sure that having fear over a new task is not just something I struggle with. Those "What ifs" can definitely hold us back.